Time to Say Goodbye

From our sofa in Athens, Ruby and I watched Grandadโ€™s funeral mass, live-streamed from the near-empty Cathedral of the Assumption in Thurles. Grandad was well known and much loved, hundreds would have comeโ€ฆ only 10 were allowed.

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Feeling Frazzled

Iโ€™m eating chocolate and feel lazy and fat, her message said, I hope you feel better than me. 

Nop, I’m not doing any better than you, I wrote back. . . . Swap chocolate for ouzo (while in Greece) and weโ€™re in the same canoe.

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Connect before you React

I adapted this from Dr Shefali, who says ‘Connect before you Correct’ as a parent. I love that woman and I’m so grateful for how her work in the world and how it gives me a chance at becoming a better mother.

To Connect before I React is still a lesson I’m learning.

 Itโ€™s not just about how I parent but how Iโ€™m a wife, a friend, a daughter and sister, and most of all how I talk to myself. To be honest I thought Iโ€™d got it by now but hey, thereโ€™s more for me to learn on this. 

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