Not ok is ok
Donโt be ok
when itโs not ok
Lean into the pain in your heart
when it breaks
for the smallest things;
a mum who says โwaitโ when you need her โnowโ
a friend who says โnoโ when you need a โHell Yeah!โ
when you feel belittled, and not invited
when you feel not good enough, or out of place
not heard, not seen
not valued
Listen
. . . . listen to your breaking heart
lean into the pain,
Cry if you want
cry and feel
and listen
Donโt
. . . . donโt paint over the cracks,
and get on with it
let your heartbreak
. . . donโt pretend youโre fine
Be the one who listens,
who stroke you, hear you and sit in the pain with you
Thatโs how you become ok
not ok
is ok
when you lean in
and listen to how you feel
Muchย Love and Light
Vigย โค๏ธ

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