Not ok is ok
Donβt be ok
when itβs not ok
Lean into the pain in your heart
when it breaks
for the smallest things;
a mum who says βwaitβ when you need her βnowβ
a friend who says βnoβ when you need a βHell Yeah!β
when you feel belittled, and not invited
when you feel not good enough, or out of place
not heard, not seen
not valued
Listen
. . . . listen to your breaking heart
lean into the pain,
Cry if you want
cry and feel
and listen
Donβt
. . . . donβt paint over the cracks,
and get on with it
let your heartbreak
. . . donβt pretend youβre fine
Be the one who listens,
who stroke you, hear you and sit in the pain with you
Thatβs how you become ok
not ok
is ok
when you lean in
and listen to how you feel
MuchΒ Love and Light
VigΒ β€οΈ

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